"The
Oppressive
Solitude"
-
A
Personal
Reflection Loneliness
is
a
state
of
mind
that
is
often
portrayed
as
something
negative.
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constantly
bombarded
with
messages
telling
us
that
being
alone
is
a
bad
thing,
that
we
should
always
strive
to
be
surrounded
by
others.
However,
what
if
loneliness
is
not
the
result
of
physical
isolation,
but
rather
of
a
feeling
of
disconnection
and
estrangement
from
the
world
around
us? I
have
always
been
an
introverted
person,
preferring
the
company
of
books
and
nature
to
that
of
people.
Growing
up,
I
never
felt
like
I
fit
in
with
the
other
kids.
I
was
awkward,
shy
and
didn't
know
how
to
start
a
conversation.
As
I
grew
older,
I
became
more
comfortable
with
who
I
am,
but
the
feeling
of
loneliness
persisted.
It
was
not
until
I
read
a
book
that
I
discovered
a
term
that
perfectly
describes
what
I
have
been
feeling:
oppressive
solitude. Oppressive
solitude
is
the
feeling
of
being
isolated,
disconnected
and
misunderstood,
even
when
surrounded
by
people.
It
is
the
feeling
of
being
suffocated
by
your
own
thoughts
and
emotions,
unable
to
express
them
to
others.
It
is
the
sense
of
being
trapped
in
your
own
mind,
unable
to
escape. I
have
come
to
realize
that
oppressive
solitude
is
not
something
that
can
be
fixed
by
simply
surrounding
myself
with
people.
It
is
a
state
of
mind
that
I
must
learn
to
navigate
and
accept.
It
is
not
a
weakness,
but
rather,
a
part
of
who
I
am. However,
I
do
believe
it
is
important
to
find
ways
to
alleviate
this
feeling,
whether
through
meditation,
creative
pursuits,
or
seeking
professional
help
if
needed.
It
is
crucial
to
remind
ourselves
that
we
are
not
alone
in
our
struggles
and
that
there
are
people
who
will
understand
and
support
us. In
conclusion,
oppressive
solitude
may
seem
like
a
daunting
and
negative
concept,
but
it
is
possible
to
find
ways
to
cope
with
it
and
realize
that
it
is
not
a
weakness.
We
should
embrace
who
we
are,
seek
help
when
we
need
it,
and
remember
that
there
is
a
whole
world
out
there
waiting
to
be
discovered.